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1: Why are balanced names so important to learn more about?
Because names are actually mathematical formulas, they represent the pattern of intelligence that our mind will draw from and translate into our thinking, our desires, and our mental expression. They even shape the quality of the experiences and environments we attract. You have proven that with your Name Report. Quite simply, the degree to which our names are balanced indicates the degree of harmony we can create in our life. The power of name is the basic mental law, and a balanced name is the proper application of this law to create a balanced and individual mind.

Because this principle is largely unknown, most of us were not given a balanced name at birth. Once we become aware of this law, we have the opportunity to change to a balanced name. This change invokes this principle and allows our thinking to becomes more harmonious. A balanced name is similar to adjusting a radio dial to get the best and clearest broadcast - free of static and overlapping transmissions. Everything improves from a balanced name; our health, our palette of mental strengths, our sense of well-being, and even the conditions we attract through the developing quality of more balanced thinking. The importance of the balanced name is that it is the key to understanding how to develop a more constructive mind and a happy, balanced life.

2: What is a balanced name?
A balanced name is a set of names that represent properly adjusted name formulas for both first and last names. Each name we use has its individual impact, and the combined names of the first name and surname create an overall effect on the conditions in our life. Many people have partially balanced names that can be fully balanced by a spelling adjustment. Some might simply change their first name or just their surname; perhaps by adding a hypenated name to their current surname. Others choose to make a complete change of both names. Whatever the route, balanced names allow the inner potential - also measurable - to properly express.  Therefore a balanced name represents a set of powerful name formulas that allow us to translate more completely the constructive qualities of intelligence of human consciousness. The resulting balanced thinking is the vehicle for creating a more constructive and happy life - allowing our inner nature an avenue for development and fulfillment.


3: How does a balanced name affect us? What is step-by-step process?
As soon as we consciously change our name, the new mental formulas are put into gear. It might be a few weeks before we notice the subtle changes. It really depends upon our age and the length of time we were under the previous names. A child will change almost immediately, whereas someone in their sixties will take longer to jump out of the ruts of their previous unbalanced names. But in all cases, balanced names move us away from a state of tension to a state of mental freedom. Over time, a stubborn person will become more patient, and able to see another's perspective. Within months, a tempermental person will become more stable and calm, able to channel their emotions more constructively. Within a relatively short period of time, a depressed person becomes happier and free of this form of mental tension.  Our collective experience of almost 80 years is that people move from instability to harmony and balance.

A balanced name creates greater strength of mind and a more reasoned approach to our decisions.  Like a rose grafted onto a wild stock, the growth above the graft will be more beautiful and based upon the intelligent properties of the graft. The hardiness of the root is still there, just as we still retain all the strengths of our previous names. We simply add mental strengths to "round" out our thinking and develop a fuller and more complete pallete of mental strengths.   A balanced name creates a happy, self-expressive quality. It creates a strength of mind to channel emotions constructively. Balanced names create humantiarian ideals, and a more reliable and stable mind. These strengths go a long way in allowing the inner qualities an avenue of expression.


4: What if I utilized the strategies you are teaching us about balanced name, what would their live be like in 30 days, 90 days, 1 year?
Someone in their twenties or thirties would see a mental change within four to six weeks. The changes would depend upon one's previous mathematical makeup, as the balanced name shore up the weaknesses of the previous names and develop new strengths over time. Within 90 days, one would recognize a real sea-shift in one's thinking. One could even recognize how conditions are beginning to change for the better. Certainly within 6 months to a year one would start to see the stable and accumulative influence of balanced names at work in definite and positive ways. One cansee  more accumulation in finances and relationships. For some people, relationships stablize. For others, they attract better situations. Because one can channel emotion more constructively, one has more control over one's decisions and destiny. If one develops a clearer understanding of this principle through the Life Analysis Training course, the constructive changes are even more pronounced.    

A balanced name doesn't magically make a bad situation perfect. But the mental strengths developed over time allow us to create better conditions. We can make the logical decisions that will shape a better future. Remember that a more conscious understanding of the principles of mental balance will accentuate positive changes. As we understand our inner potential - described in the Name Report and taught in detail in Life Analysis Training, we can develop these potentialities more thoroughly. Life is an effort, but with greater understanding and wisdom, it can be a constructive and fruitful effort. If we remain ignorant of the principles that govern mind, we fail to take advantage of the opportunities presented to us - responding without a complete perspective of the options. If we are more aware of these principles, we can guide our life to greater success, fulfillment, and happiness.  Mental freedom, the expression of the constructive qualities of mind over the destructive qualities, is our greater potential with a balanced name and sufficient consistent effort.



6 Personal Development Strategies with the Mathematical Principle of name

Why do we encourage every person who gets a Name Report to take the introductory learning program, Life Analysis Training?  Our graduates tell us that these nine areas are where they gain the most traction.  Because these mirror our course objectives, we encourage you to consider enrolling. If knowledge is power, true wisdom can direct this power for good:

1.     Understand your thinking better through a detailed understanding of name
The Name Report describes the mathematical name formulas in some detail. The course teaches you each component part of the name formulas so that your understanding will be much deeper and broader after completing the course. Learn how and why your first name creates specific strengths and weaknesses. Learn how your family surname helps or hinders your individual thinking pattern. Understand the overall effect of both names in much greater detail. This can allow you to live to the higher potential of mind.

2.     Understand your inner potential through a detailed understanding of the Birth date
Although your birth date influence is outlined in the Name Report, learn how this inner nature expresses differently over three major stages in your life. Learn how to interpret this largely unknown dimension of your nature and potential, and develop them with life-long mental goals.  As we develop this inner quality, it can become a powerful constructive influence in our lives. It represents a seed of universal potential that can only be activated by a more conscious understanding and consistent effort. 

3.     Understand others better with the Mathematical Principle.
Just as you can understand yourself better, you can understand others using the Mathematical Principle. Whether it be a family member, or a spouse, this principle is consistent and accurate, allowing you to understand them better.  Why would you want to understand them better? Besides getting along better, it allows us benefit by the forth important awareness of this learning program…

4.     Understand what makes each person happy
Each person is unique. If we understand their inner and outer nature, we can help them be their higher self. We can do this by learning how to communicate with each person more effectively. If the person is a practical and independent nature with a direct communication style, we can be direct, matching their style of communication. If they are enthusiastic and inspirational, you can match their style with ideas and ideals and are relative to their interests.  We take our cues from their inner and outer natures – making them more happy in dealing with us.  

5.     Take action on health weaknesses
The Name Report outlines some of the key health weaknesses of specific unbalanced names. As we recognize how the names are impacting upon our health, we can offset any challenge by a balanced name.  In addition, your more complete understanding of health weaknesses can allow you to make life style changes to offset any future health challenge. Being forewarned, is forearmed.  There are many proactive steps one can take to offset the weaknesses of specific unbalanced names. Our Healthy Living learning program goes into this into much more detail – but it is introduced in Life Analysis Training.

6.     Make your Life a Constructive Effort
By understanding the constructive and destructive qualities of mind, we can make our life a more constructive effort. All challenges in our life are linked to the destructive expression of mind. As we build a more positive and progressive mental quality, the experiences we attract will be relative. This is not an emotional process of desire, but one of aligning ourselves with basic natural laws. As such, we attract the opportunities we need to grow. Life Analysis Training can be the most important training you commit to. It takes you on a journey of understanding the higher potential of mind, and offers you practical and proven strategies to improve your life.   If you want to make your life better, starting from the basic cause of mind is the most reliable foundation from which to progress.  

12 Myths about Balanced Names

Myth 1: With a balanced name, I will lose the positive qualities from my existing unbalanced names.

A balanced name adds mental strengths without removing any of your current positive strengths or abilities. Like grafting a beautiful rose stem onto a robust rootstock, the new name adds constructive mental qualities that you currently lack without affecting your existing strengths. The mental qualities that diminish are the destructive weaknesses that are inherent in your unbalanced names. If your unbalanced names created a lack confidence, you will lose this weakness as you use your balanced names consistently. If your unbalanced names created discontent, you will lose this weakness and become happier due to the harmony of your balanced names. If your unbalanced names create an over-emotional nature, you will lose this weakness and become more stable with a balanced name. Because the balanced names replace weaknesses with strengths, you become happier, healthier, and more successful.

Myth 2: If I change to a balanced name, I will lose my memories and forget who I was.

Memories are not affected by your name choice. With or without a name change, memories are somewhat selective. We should remember the lesson learned from an experience and discard the emotional discord we might have experienced. For example, when a youngster burns his finger on a stove element, he remembers not to touch it when it is hot. He doesn’t vividly remember the actual pain except as something to be avoided.

Certainly you will become a more constructive person with balanced names. This new quality of thinking attracts accordingly. We have many documented comments from people who have changed their names and are so impressed with the constructive changes that they attracted within the first twelve months of using balanced names. They don't lose their memories, but they do improve their life!

Myth 3: If I change my name, and my wife changes hers, and we change our children's names, we will all have different last names.

Your entire family can share the same mathematically balanced surname. Every balanced first name will work in harmony with the balanced surnames we recommend.

This is not always true with numerologists who make name change recommendations. We know of people who have a smattering of truth -  ­ perhaps from studying our courses - ­ but manage to distort even this with their misguided opinions. This is known as the "blind leading the blind'. You should protect yourself from all imitators by getting your balanced names only from the Kabalarian Philosophy, the world authority and only source for properly balanced names.

If you want to balance your names and your spouse does not, you can either use a different surname, a modified spelling of your current surname, or a hyphenated surname that incorporates your spouse’s current surname as part of your combined name. In any case, the Name Consultants will work with you to get a balanced name that suits your circumstances.

Even if you cannot change your surname, as is the case in some countries, we can recommend the most balanced first name to go with the unbalanced surname. This secondary balanced recommendation is not the optimum, but is much better than many randomly chosen unbalanced names.

Myth 4: Only people who are in financial trouble change their names.

Although it is true that people change their names for many different reasons, thousands of people have changed their names for the sole purpose of bringing greater harmony, happiness, and health into their lives through a balanced name. Many of these people were already very successful financially - but success in other areas of their lives may have been elusive. They recognized that their Name Report was very accurate. Because it is based on their birth date, which is unchangeable, and their names, which can be changed, they made the logical deduction that a balanced name change was in order.

Yes, a balanced name can bring greater financial stability and success. But the fuller harmony that is the potential of a balanced name is not limited to material stability. The harmony in balanced names energizes our physical health and well-being, our greater mental balance. These, in turn, create more harmonious relationships, develop mental strengths, and unfold our inner potential into new constructive channels. A greater degree of happiness is possible with a balanced name. Balanced names create greater harmony in our physical health, our mental equilibrium, and broadens our awareness of the basic principle of mind. A practical and objective perspective on how to develop our inner potential is possible with this new awareness.

We have been making balanced name recommendations since the 1930s. Rest assured that a name change is much more accepted in our society today. It does not indicate an avoidance of financial trouble. It represents an acceptance of the very real influence of the Mathematical Principle of name.

Myth 5: It would be too difficult professionally to make a name change.

People from most walks of life have balanced their names through the Kabalarian Philosophy. This includes many of the professions. From university professors, lawyers, certified accountants, engineers, and  architects, all have benefited from taking a balanced name.  If well-known actors and writers can change their names, I expect you can too! Don’t use this as an excuse for not benefiting from bringing greater happiness and harmony into your life. It does take an effort to overcome inertia and make a balanced name change, but the rewards are very real and definite. If the key weaknesses in your thinking slowly diminished and disappeared, what would be the net result in your life? This is what you should focus on with a change to a balanced name.   

Many people are afraid of the reactions of others to your name change. If you accept that your current unbalanced names are holding you back as noted in your Name Report, you owe it to yourself to take the necessary steps to make the change. Facing your fears is easier to do as you gain more confidence in this principle. Study the introductory course. Speak with your Name Consultant. They can give you more specific advice and guidance in dealing with your personal circumstances.

The truth is that, for most people, your name change is not that big a deal! Some will be intrigued, others will be ambivalent. Some family members might scoff, others will accept it. In the bigger picture, only you have to live your life. Only you face the challenges of your current name weaknesses. Only you can decide to embrace the greater opportunities of a balanced name. With a balanced name, you will be able to develop you inner potential more completely. Strengths that were impossible with an unbalanced name are within reach.  You can decide and choose a better life with a balanced name.

Myth 6: I identify with my name and the transition would be too difficult.

We recognize that not everyone has the mental scope to change to a balanced name. Many name combinations create very specific limitations that hold them from considering anything new, forcing them into a mental rut. They crave routine and avoid any changes. That means they forgo progressive changes as well - changes that can lead to mental growth. Ask any Murray, Julian, or David about the influence of their names after they read their detailed Name Report. Even with the accuracy of their Name Report, their skepticism - created by their names - will keep them from considering a name change.  Even though this is exactly what they need, their current thinking can be like the blinkers they put on horses that pull tourist carriages in cities. These blinkers narrow their vision so they can only see what is exactly in front of them. Like these blinkers, some names limit people to materiality - unable to consider the bigger picture of why we are the way we are and how to create greater harmony in our lives. Although balanced name would help them overcome the limitations of their current thinking, it is beyond their current mental scope and reach. 

If transitioning to a “better” you is too difficult for you to conceive, you will not make the effort to change to a balanced name. We hope you realize that your current weaknesses are holding you back. Only by getting at the cause, the Mathematical Principle of name, can you hope to change - at a basic level - for the better.

As soon as you take a balanced name, you will begin to identify with it. It may take three to six weeks, but eventually you will recognize new qualities in your thinking. Your balanced names formulate these new qualities, and you can develop them into mental strength. You will forge a "better" you by using the balanced names consistently. 

The balanced names significantly improve our lives, because they enhance our thinking with the constructive strengths of greater individuality, a better understanding of others, greater self-expression, more patience, more versatility, more mental stability and reliability, a greater depth of mind, greater objectivity, and a broader appreciation for the opportunity of life. Balanced names add new dimensions to our life by improving the greatest power in our life; our mind.

Myth 7: I am too old for a name change.

If you are still breathing, you are not too old for personal progress. We have people in their eighties and older participating in our philosophical study programs. The day you stop growing is the day you start dying. Most people with balanced names look much younger than those in their age group with unbalanced names. Why wouldn’t they, when their bodies are healthier, their minds are more constructive, and their attitudes are more progressive?  You have attracted this opportunity. If you take a balanced name, you will never regret it. It can bring peace, happiness, and contentment to your thinking. Who is too old for that?

Myth 8: It would be a slap in my parents’ face to change my name.

Parents want the best for you. They may not realize that the balanced name is the best course for you to take immediately. Generally they will appreciate the changes we create in using the balanced name consistently.  When I changed my name, even though my parents accepted the change grudgingly at first, they became much more intrigued as they saw me change for the better over time.

Most people are emotionally tied to their names. Many people will experience doubt and anxiety when considering a change to balanced names. If we have to deal with illogical emotional impulses with the evidence of a Name Report in our hands, imagine how some family members, without this evidence, might feel. Be patient with them. Handle their anxiety intelligently. Assure them that a name change does not have to affect your relationship with them adversely. If you explain to them that the balanced name will help you lead a happier and more fulfilled life, most parents will accept it - even though it is grudgingly at first.

No doubt there are some parents that will not see any point of view other than their own. At this point, you have to make a choice. Are you living your life, or are they living your life for you? You don't choose your parents, and as an adult - you are responsible for the rest of your life. Are you going to let someone else's illogical feelings hold you back from greater health, happiness, and fulfillment?  I hope not!  Call your Name Consultant if you need a sounding board. We are here to help you through the name change issues.

Myth 9: It is too much hassle, re: business, family, and friends.

Yes, it does take at least twenty minutes to complete the name change forms involved in the process. And yes, it takes time to sort out the paperwork to replace your old unbalanced names on your various identity documents. But one can consider it an exercise in establishing the new balanced name. Each step of paperwork brings your balanced name more definitely into your life. Each step of paperwork distances you from the weaknesses of the unbalanced names. 

It is simply a matter of perspective. If you want a progressive life, you can take the progressive steps to make it happen with this principle. Dealing with business associates, family, and friends are all steps toward this goal. Each can be handled with patience, intelligence, and good humor.

Don’t let the uninformed sway you from your goal. You are charting a new course towards greater balance. Like a sailboat in cross-winds, there are steps you can take to insure your safe passage. The first is to realize that you do not have to convince anyone of the benefit of your new name. You can simply tell them it was a personal choice. If they are curious, you could refer them to the Kabalarians.com website to validate it themselves. For those closer to you like family, you could share your Name Report with them. For many, telling people after the fact reduces the potential friction from those who feel it is their right to interfere with your life choices.

Myth 10: It is legally complicated to change your name.

By and large, name change procedures are a simple process. In fact, in North America you can legally change your name by usage. However, completing the appropriate government forms makes it quicker and easier to get everyone to accept the name change. Check with your local state or provincial government online for the free forms to complete the process.

Myth 11: “A name is a name,” and you can make any name work for you if you really want to!

If this were true, Name Reports would not be accurate. Because the Name Reports are precise and accurate, our names and birth date are the two keys to understanding our inner and outer nature. The birthdate measures the inner nature, and the names create the outer nature or mind. If the names are not balanced, the inner and outer natures will not be in harmony and challenges and difficulties ensue. If the names are unbalanced, we suffer predictable limitations in our thinking as described in the Name Report.  All unbalanced names create predictable health weaknesses, and create predictable limitations in the experiences we attract. This is the fundamental mathematical law that forms mind. It cannot be superseded by desire or will.

Although mind is a creative power, it creates relative to the pattern directed by the Mathematical Principle of name. You can prove this by the evidence of your Name Report. A desire to change can lead us to discover the Mathematical Principle of name and take the appropriate steps to use a balanced name.  Wishing will not create balance alone, neither is will power enough without awareness of this principle. But balance and harmony is possible by using a balanced name. It combines awareness, action, and desire in harmony with a basic law.

Myth 12: I need to know more to make this change.

We agree that more knowledge will create more confidence in the principle of balanced name. We encourage people to take our introductory course, Life Analysis Training, to develop a more complete understanding of this principle. But the truth is that you have everything you need in your Name Report to make a logical decision to change to balanced names. Your Name Report is conclusive proof that your current names are limiting you. If you recognize it's accuracy in describing your life, and decide to take a balanced name, any roadblocks can be surmounted. Everything begins with a decision.

Decide today to take a balanced name, and you will overcome your current name limitations in your future. Decide today to take a balanced name, and you will create greater mental freedom in your future.  Decide today to take a balanced name, and you will be happier, healthier, and a wiser person in your future!