Posted: September-15-2003 at 6:02pm | IP Logged

Hi Ive been on this site quite a few times and have referred some of my friends and my sister to this site . I am fascinated by the Kabalarian Philosophy. I find it to be accurate in my experiences. I think its great that theres so many names and an indepth description of the names meaning. I find it helpful and hope one day to call the 800 phone number or buy the full name analysis. I think there are so many ways that you can find insight into your personality and obviously your name must play a key role.

My question is can you determine a couples general compatibility by their names? My name is Mandy and my fiances name is Muslim. I call him Baby mostly and at work people call him Mo. I wonder if there is a way to determine compatibility or are names in this philosophy analyzed separately.

one other thing i read on this site i believe is that mothers tend to pick names similar to their pattern...is that right? I think it seems accurate because if i had a boy i like the name Joelle and the meaning seems similar top my name and personality. my fiance for a girl would pick Jasmine which is similar to his name and personality. where as i like the name Azurae alot.

I just wanted to hear some thoughts on these two questions. thank you!

Posted: September-15-2003 at 7:10pm | IP Logged

Compatibility between people is possible no matter what the name through understanding.  Certainly names can draw from similar qualities of intelligence and are more relative.  For example, an inspirational and often misunderstood name like Victoria can suffer misunderstanding when married to an intensely practical and self-centered name like David. This understanding of names and their intrinsic nature is taught in more detail in the Life Analysis Training. 

But for marriage, we consider the basic measurement of the Group to determine relative compatibilities. The Group - based upon the day of birth - determines your basic approach to life; whether practical, inspirational or people-oriented. 

The Group measurement is calculated by reducing the date of birth to a single digit. For instance, the 15th reduces to 1+5=6.  There are 3 Groups; Water (birthdates reducing to 1,5,7), Fire (birthdates reducing to 2,4,8) and Air (birthdates reducing to 3,6,9).

The Water Group has an independent, practical perspective, having the lesson of becoming a leader through their own original thinking.  The Fire Group is people oriented, learning through the fire of experience and having the lesson of understanding others. The Air Group is inspirational and has a love of people. Their lesson is to lift the tenor of humanity through the constructive use of the power of the word. 

Each group is most compatible within their own group.  Water with Water, Fire with Fire, and Air with Air. But the Fire can merge with either Air or Water. Generally the Water and Air have different approaches, so it takes more patience and understanding to create long-term harmony.  But it is do-able, and not a reasonable excuse for a divorce!

In regards to your choice of a name for a child, I would implore you not to choose a name based upon a very brief analysis on the Philosophy website! You are creating your child's mental future without taking into consideration the family name and the overall total influence of the names together.  Even a moderately balanced name combined with the wrong surname can create an unfortunate destiny.  

Choosing a name based upon how it sounds or feels is like walking up to a keyboard and randomly hitting chords with the hope of creating a harmonious chord.  It is often years before you see the full affect of the unbalanced name...and it will be shame to burden your child with the tensions of an unbalanced name. 

You are advised to get a balanced name for your child. Anything less will equate to some degree of mental turmoil or tension in your child's life. I cannot overstate how important this is to your child's future.  Look into it!

Posted: September-16-2003 at 11:17pm | IP Logged

Dear Mandy:

Thanks for your enthusiasm about our site.  I think you should obtain a Name Report, though, so that you will see how important it is to consider all names an individual uses and has used, plus his/her birthdate, to give an accurate analysis.  In studying your own Name Report, I think you may begin to perceive the depth and profoundity of the Principle we teach in the Kabalarian Philosophy. 

Regarding relationships and possible marriages, the principle of mathematics, language, name, mind and consicousness is the key to compatible, deep, long-term happy relationships.  I urge you again, to obtain a Name Report, and to encourage Muslim/Baby/Mo to do so as well.  These reports will give you a far deeper understanding of each other, and of your true inner natures. Thus, you will have more patience and practise far greater love for each other.

Best regards,
Tonnae

Posted: September-16-2003 at 11:22pm | IP Logged

PS:

Regarding deciding on a name for a baby, I reiterate what Daken has said. It is of utmost importance that we understand what we are doing when we place our hands on the keyboard of life and name a child.  Just because we "like" a name does not mean (in fact 99.9999999999999999999999 times out of 100 it does not) that it is the right name for the child. Babies' names are historically always chosen because the parents "like" the name! And what a mess we have in the world and in individual tragedies today, as a result.

We really appreciate your kind comments and your enthusiasm, but to get a little more serious I have to say this: If you learn nothing at all from our site learn this: naming a baby is the most serious responsibility you will have as a parent.  Use the principle that governs mind to do so correctly.