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Option 3: Your baby has been born and has officially been given a name

1. Why should the baby names you choose be balanced baby names?

It is of crucial importance to give your baby a Balanced Name™. In doing so, you are setting in motion a pattern of balanced, constructive qualities of intelligence that will be the foundation of your child's personality, thinking patterns, and nature. The baby names you chose will create the baby’s mind. It is that direct a relationship. The last name is vital as well, as it creates an important total name influence when combined with the first name.

A balanced baby name will create intelligent mental qualities such as being expressive, happy, generous, outgoing, giving, responsible, reliable, stable, intellectual, and people-oriented - to name just a few.

Whatever your baby's inner qualities are, they will develop more naturally with a balanced baby name. The fundamental purpose of a Balanced Name™ is to develop a harmony and relativity between the baby's mind and the baby's inner potential.

2. Why should I not choose my baby name from the sample names on your site?

We implore you not to choose baby names from the brief name summaries on the web site! You are creating your baby's mental future without taking into consideration the family name and the overall total influence of the names together. Even a moderately balanced baby name combined with your last name can create an unfortunate destiny for your baby.

Choosing baby names based upon how they sound or feel is like throwing darts at a dart board blind-folded. It is often years before you see the full influence of the unbalanced name you have chosen for your child. An unbalanced baby name will be burden and limitation to your baby as the tensions and limitations develop. Why subject your baby to severe limitations needlessly, when you have the opportunity to give your baby a fully Balanced Name™?

Anything less than a fully balanced baby name will create some degree of mental tension in thinking that will be a limiting factor in your baby's life. We cannot overstate how important this is to your baby's future. You have the unique opportunity to influence consciously your baby’s entire life constructively by choosing a properly Balanced Name™.

3. What other factors, besides the balanced baby names, are important?

The names you give your baby are vital and they will affect the child's destiny. But gaining a greater understanding of these principles, you can become the best parent possible. Your baby is under your mental guidance for many years. The more you understand Balanced Name™ and thinking, the more stability and strength you can bring to raising your baby.

There is much more to Kabalarian Philosophy than the understanding the Mathematical Principle of name. The Philosophy teaches principles that are essential to successful parenting. These include the cyclic quality of time that influences your child directly. This is an incredibly useful tool for planning and managing your child as he or she develops. In addition, the simple and practical principles of healthy living are taught to insure optimum health for your baby.

Kabalarian Philosophy teaches the understanding of mental freedom, which may be more important than you presently realize. Many challenges in married life are related directly to the degree of mental freedom developed by the parents. Emotional turmoil and mental tensions can be very destructive to an infant. The more you understand the keys to developing greater mental freedom, the happier and more constructive is the family environment you can create for your infant.

4. How do you insure your baby the best opportunities you can?

Parenthood is one of the greatest roles you can assume. To do it properly, you should strive to be the perfect role model, by developing the wisdom and understanding to guide the child's mind to its greater potential expression. By understanding your child's inner potential specifically, you can guide the child to develop these natural qualities. By understanding the child's cycle, you can protect the child from the adverse experiences possible in test cycles.

You cannot leave the baby's future simply to the strength of a Balanced Name™. The balanced baby name is the vital key, but will not resolve the many challenges of life without your greater understanding. You are the umbrella of mental stability and balance that becomes your baby's greatest protection during formative years. If you do not have it, your child suffers the lack.

How do you create this greater understanding? By learning the universal principles taught in our home-study program, you will broaden and expand your perspective, and become the best parent you can be.

5. Why does a baby respond to a name when he or she cannot yet recognize it?

The influence of thought does not require the baby's immediate recognition. Even a deaf baby will respond to a name before understanding it. The parents make the name choice and associate the name to the child through the invisible but compelling power of thought.

The baby immediately responds to the mathematical formula of the name. As the child acquires language, the personality becomes more definite and recognizable. A baby improperly named, will respond very quickly to a new Balanced Name™. Parents, who have changed their baby's unbalanced names to balanced names, recognize an immediate and constructive impact, such as an immediate relaxation and placidity that was seldom there before.

6. Is this numerology?

Numerology is an ancient study of the influence of names on personality. As this theory flows into many diverse numerological theories, one could argue that the Kabalarian Philosophy's understanding of name is the latest and most advanced evolution of this theory. In our minds, we have gone beyond the theory of name into a more complete theory of name, mind, and Consciousness. You could say we teach a complete theory of life; relating cause and effect through a unique understanding of the physical, mental, and spiritual laws of mind and life.

We do not associate ourselves with the terms numerologists or numerology, as so many of the numerological theories are incorrect, incomplete, or distorted. If one studies the various "flavours" of numerology with an understanding of the Kabalarian Philosophy, one quickly finds the discrepancies and flaws. We acknowledge that the Mathematical Principle is numerological in nature, but Mr. Alfred J. Parker forged so many new avenues of understanding relative to mind, name, and Consciousness, that the Philosophy is to numerology as a space ship is to a horse and buggy. They both are conceptual systems with some commonalities, but the development and advancement of understanding in the Philosophy makes obsolete the other older theory.

This may be difficult for you to see as a casual visitor, but it is true nonetheless. If you choose to think of us as numerologists, you miss the full import of what the Kabalarian Philosophy offers you: the understanding of how to live a full and complete life, using an understanding of mind and life to attain balance, harmony, and wisdom.

7. Can numerology influence my baby's success?

Firstly, we have found many numerologists do not understand the full impact of a balanced baby name. If they have an idea, it is usually through a peripheral study of our teachings. Unfortunately, those who branch out thinking they are helping others with their incomplete knowledge are doing a great disservice.

A Kabalarian name consultant would never recommend many of the baby names recommended by numerologists. In fact, we have heard of baby name combinations that would be positively harmful to long-term health and happiness. These numerological baby name combinations may create drive and intense ambition - but at a cost in mental tension and lack of fulfillment. We teach that success can be accomplished through balance - not through extreme intensity.

Of course, there are many types of successes - health and vitality is a success we create through constructive living habits - as well as understanding the laws of mental balance (such as the Principle of a Balanced Name™ and others), relaxation, and deep breathing. A happy and intelligent mind, capable of objectivity, analysis, humour, and the many constructive qualities necessary to build a beautiful mind, is a sign of mental success. Financial success is a facet of creating value through our work and career.

All of these successes can be a part of our spiritual accomplishment - which is the fulfilment of our unique potential. Life really is very short; and the ideals that we formulate and use as the nucleus to our life's efforts should be more universal rather than just those for self.

8. Do you have to balance both the first name and the last name?

Yes, in many cases, a slight change to the spelling of the surname may be necessary. This is often something people are loath to consider. We explain that you have a choice. You can choose to live with the limitations of the existing names, or you can choose to change the names and derive the benefits. This decision takes a degree of confidence in this principle that further study can develop. So by studying this principle, you will have the opportunity to test it sufficiently to recognize it as a basic law of mind. As you gain this confidence, you can make the constructive changes that will bring about a revolution in your thinking and greater success and happiness in your life.

In considering the influence of both names, consider the card game of Blackjack or 21. To win consistently you must get 18 or better to beat the dealer. You are dealt 2 cards, a first name and a last name. One might be a four of spades, and the other a six of clubs. Well, if you change only one card, you are assured of loosing. If you change them both to balanced names, it is as if you were just dealt an ace of diamonds and a jack of hearts. That is how dramatic a Balanced Name™ is in the game of life!

You win every time with a hand like that. A Balanced Name™ creates more accumulative conditions where opportunities come your way. It is a strength you draw from the rest of your life - and if you learn the principle in the home study program, you can use it to achieve any goals you set yourself. You still have to do the work of accomplishing them, but an unbalanced name and destiny are not holding you back.

9. Can balanced baby names cure sickness in a baby?

We do not make claims that a balanced baby name will cure any sickness. The physical body cures itself if the cause of the problem is removed. The intelligence of the body is wonderful. But a balanced baby name does remove fundamental tensions created by an unbalanced baby name.

For instance, if you look at the health weaknesses related to a specific unbalanced baby name, you will find that the tension of the name has an effect on a specific physical system. Therefore if the chronic illness is associated to this relationship, there may be some measure of relief by giving your baby a Balanced Name™. There are many factors involved.

We can say that you can improve the overall health of a baby dramatically by following the simple physical and mental laws relative to health. By ordering a Name Report™, you will gain a greater understanding of how your baby names will influence the health of your child as they mature. By applying the simple and practical laws of healthy living, you can cure most sicknesses, if the illness has not created irreversible damage.

10. Is this teaching compatible with my religion?

The Kabalarian Philosophy is compatible with the universal interpretations of all religions.

What is the universal interpretation of Christianity, for example? We interpret the teachings of Jesus to represent the personal responsibility of every human to express his or her inner potential of Christ Consciousness (or Universal Consciousness), which is seeded in every human being at the first breath.

What is Universal Consciousness? It can be thought of as the understanding and application of the physical, mental, and spiritual laws, manifesting as wisdom. This wisdom is attainable by everyone through mental growth, or evolution of concept.

Every parable and story in the Christian Bible has an esoteric and significant meaning to better understand the process of mental evolution to wisdom. If these deeper meanings are not understood, the Bible becomes limited to a history of personality and events. If we interpret the inner meanings of these stories, aspects such as the the various parables or the days of creation in Genesis are very significant not as literal truths but as aspects of the principles of mind. The Book of Revelation is understood only through mathematical symbolism.

The teachings of Jesus are not limited to a time and place two thousand years ago. The principles taught are as significant today as they will be five thousand years in the future. For humanity to evolve, the principles of mental evolution are the keys to fulfilling the purpose of all religions. All religions strive to teach man his spiritual responsibility for mental evolution, but differ in their approach by their interpretation of this process. We conceive that this process is accomplished by understanding the laws of life, and applying them to attain wisdom.

Would not Jesus agree that his teachings are to help people become more universal in concept, expressing the constructive qualities of mind so that the wisdom of Universal Reason is expressed into their everyday life? How is this possible by belief alone? It requires an understanding of the principles of how Christ Consciousness is established. These principles are hidden in symbolism throughout the Bible. These principles are not the sole property of any one religion, but the wisdom that all seek. If you seek, you will find... You must put forth the effort in seeking wisdom.

We understand the significance of the esoteric teachings of Jesus, and we teach these principles in a practical and basic manner for all to understand and benefit. We strive to recognize the universal potential in all people for we are "One breath, one Life, one God."

It is not just a coincidence that the Bible says the "Word is God". The word symbolizes language, the vehicle for Consciousness. How else can you express mentally except through language? To understand how to make the “Word with God” in your life is not simply an act of faith, but it requires the act of creating mental balance. This is accomplished through understanding the mathematical principles of mental balance as taught in Kabalarian Philosophy.

11. How do baby names create mind?

In the English language, A is always in the first position, B in the second, etc...The intelligence of the English language depends upon the mathematical consistency of this order. What people fail to conceive is how this mathematical order relates to human intelligence.

Thinking operates using language. You cannot think without it. Try picturing something in your mind - and you will find that you understand it only with the words attached to the elements of the image. Therefore thinking and language are intertwined to the point of being inseparable.

So what is the most important word in your language to you? The answer is: your name. It is the part of our language that we consistently associate with our identity. Who are you? You are your name.

We can reduce any name to a mathematical formula based upon the sequence of the letters in the alphabet. The numbers in this name formula represent a unique relationship that combines qualities of intelligence in a specific pattern that is predictable and consistent. That is why we can describe personality with name.

A metaphor to visualize this process is that our mind is similar to a movie projector where the light of abstract intelligence shines through onto the screen of our life. The focusing lens in the projector is the Mathematical Principle of name. A Balanced Name™ focuses the light of intelligence so that the images are clear and sharp. An unBalanced Name™ creates a blurry and unfocused image.

The mechanics of mind are much more involved. But for the purposes of this brief introduction, the Mathematical Principle of name relates qualities of intelligence in the mathematical formula of your name. It is the key to understanding how Consciousness comes into form. This relationship of mathematics, language, name, mind and Consciousness is the key to understanding your thinking, your urges, the experiences you attract, your successes or failures, your communication style, your relationships with others, your limitations, your tensions, your aptitudes, and your mental weaknesses.

12. Why do we emphasize the importance of baby name choices?

We emphasize the importance of a balanced baby name because the baby name creates the child’s future mental life. It is the basic principle that tunes the baby to specific qualities of thinking. Because it dictates the qualities of thinking, it directs the destiny of the child as it matures as well. We are subject to this law of mind whether we are aware of it or not. Is it not better to be aware of it?

Too many people are lost in intangible theories without a basic understanding of the laws that govern our physical, mental, and spiritual being. Life is measurable, and the Mathematical Principle of name is a fundamental law. Change your name and you change your thinking. Use the principle of balance, and your life becomes more balanced. Name is that fundamental.

The evolving concepts may be the melodies of our life, but the name is the actual tuning mechanism. If you were a pianist, you would insure your instrument is in perfect pitch. It is the same with mind. The name is the basic principle of how qualities of universal intelligence come into being. As such, we address it as a basic truth, and a necessary stage in creating balance.

13. What is the relationship of health to a name choice for a baby?

At a fundamental level, your names create your thinking patterns through the Mathematical Principle of name. This is why your name can describe many aspects of your personality. In addition, your names influence the overall health of the physical body. This is why we can predict health weaknesses based upon the names used. The greater understanding of creating mental balance over tension and how they affect the body is of vital importance to everyone who wants to live a happy and healthy life.

14. Can a balanced baby name influence health?

Absolutely. Can it do it as quickly as changing your name? Sometimes it can. It depends largely on the circumstances of the illness and its cause. In other words, an unBalanced Name™ can be a hidden factor in the cause of ill health. If it has taken 20 to 30 years of unbalanced living to create a health crisis, it is illogical to expect a name change to produce instant health. If you put forth reasonable effort learning and applying the basic principles of health, balanced thinking, and the elimination of tension, you would have gone a long way in your pursuit of complete and vital health. You do not get something for nothing, but a Balanced Name™ can be the first step in creating healthier circumstances

A Balanced Name™ does balance your thinking pattern, which, in turn, allows the inner nature greater expression. This is very significant to health, and difficult for you to completely comprehend. When the constructive qualities of your inner potential are not developed, some degree of tension develops. The balance of the name is the key to developing these inner qualities. Consider a radio station with constant static interfering with your musical enjoyment. The same is true with your thinking. An unbalanced name creates tensions which interfere with your degree of relaxation, happiness, and contentment. This does create an impact upon the health of the body.

We teach a very practical way of understanding the physical health through our Healthy Living course. It includes a basic understanding of the link between name and health in much more detail.

15. Does our thinking influence our health?

Our attitudes and habits of thinking do have an influence on our health. If we are bitter, angry, and critical, our body will respond to these destructive thoughts. The body responds to any mental tension, and will eventually reflect that tension as a physical tension. The cause and effect of thoughts on health is only just starting to be better understood by people outside the Philosophy. We have a saying, “ Happy thoughts are healthy thoughts.”

The How to Be Mentally Free home-study course, is filled with the practical and logical processes of improving our life through developing greater mental freedom, which is the constructive expression of mind, which is everyone’s fuller potential. Greater mental freedom enhances both our health and our happiness simultaneously.

16. Will a Balanced Name™ guarantee complete health?

A Balanced Name™ does not guarantee perfect health. We maintain our health by applying an intelligent lifestyle, with a deeper understanding of mind and the body, coupled with a logical and balanced perspective on important aspects of living. We cannot maintain good health if we break the simple and practical principles of healthy living. So both knowledge and application are important.

A Balanced Name™ will create a new harmony between the inner nature and the expanded constructive mental expression. We can create better health with greater understanding. This understanding includes the application of the physical, mental, and spiritual laws, which are basic, practical and universal to all peoples. These principles are taught step by step in the home study courses of Kabalarian Philosophy.

17. Does changing one’s maiden name at marriage have an influence on one’s life?

Yes, taking on a new surname will change the mathematical makeup that creates your thinking. The implications are dramatic. People can find new health challenges, change of directions in their careers, and definite changes in the conditions they attract into their life. This seems incredible to those who have not studied and tested this principle. But it is true, nonetheless.

Your best investment is a Name Report™, which will describe your current and original names. This will give you a tangible way to test this theory. As always, it comes with a money-back guarentee if you are not satisfied that it is accurate.

Once you get the Name Report™, you can evaluate your options, and consider some of the recommendations in the report. You are one of the fortunate few who have discovered the key principle that shapes your life. You can choose to understand it to improve your life, often dramatically.

18. Why are many of your name summaries for different names worded exactly the same? Is this a mistake?

This is not a mistake. The analyses are based on the mathematical formula or name combination of the specific name. This is derived by adding the vowels and consonants separately and totaling them together for a 3 digit formula. Therefore the name combination for many names is the same. Currently we have more than 700,000 names on our site. If you divide 700,000 by the 81 possible name combinations, you will see that it is possible to have over 8,600 names with the same mathematical formula.

To provide a complete, accurate analysis, we must consider all of the names used—first legal name, nicknames, last names (past and present), plus the date of birth. Once you obtain your own Name Report™, you will recognize that it is amazingly accurate. In addition, the Name Report™ provides a detailed description of your inner nature, determined mathematically by the total of the month, day, and year of birth reduced to a single digit. If that inner potential quality of intelligence is not allowed to develop in your life, tensions, frustrations, destructive experiences, and possible health problems can develop.

We use the term "destiny number" to signify the sum total of all letters (actually the numbers associated to the letters) in the baby’s combined names. This number is significant as it describes the environment the baby will attract using these specific names. If you change the baby’s names to balanced names (first name and last name), you change the baby’s destiny number to a much stronger one, which will create a positive and constructive influence on the outcome of their life. It is that simple, and that profound.

There is much more to this principle than you might realize. Your name activates mental qualities that combine though your body, nervous system, and mind in a specific and measurable manner. If you were to change you name, you are re-combining the qualities of intelligence that makes up your mental makeup. It is much like a chemist adding elements together to get a third compound. Some compounds blow up, and others can be quite useful. Some names, which we call mathematically unbalanced names, are less beneficial than other more balanced names.

The Philosophy teaches that the qualities of your mind are measurable, and that by understanding these qualities, you will better understand yourself, others and how you interact with them. You have a choice. You can live your life with your current names and you will be subject to the mental blueprint created by these names. Alternately, you can make the conscious choice to change your names to balanced names and set in motion a mental law to create a more harmonious and successful destiny.