Your first name of Shadya gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. Not liking to stand alone, you seek the assurance of love, understanding, and appreciation to give you the confidence to do your best. Sometimes friction in association results because your penchant for exactness and detail can cause you to be too fussy over inconsequential matters in the home or at work. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. Peaceful and settled conditions appeal to you and you are naturally desirous of having the security of a home, where your life could follow a definite pattern, and where you would not have to make major decisions. You require new ideas or concepts to be presented in complete detail before you can understand them properly and accept them. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say “yes” or “no” and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. At times you exhibit an uncompromising attitude and indifference toward others through failing to listen to and reason out another person’s point of view. Growths could also be a possibility. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood.
