Your first name of Shayda gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. Not liking to stand alone, you seek the assurance of love, understanding, and appreciation to give you the confidence to do your best. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say “yes” or “no” and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. Peaceful and settled conditions appeal to you and you are naturally desirous of having the security of a home, where your life could follow a definite pattern, and where you would not have to make major decisions. You are not comfortable having to make major decisions. This uncertainty and indecision undermines your initiative, positivity, and vitality. While you do have many fine qualities, the tensions created by this name do not allow you to enjoy a full and complete life. You resist being forced into change and could become almost impervious to new ideas.
