Your first name of Basaam makes you spontaneous and versatile, enjoying congenial association, appreciating the finer things of life, and loving to talk and debate. These tendencies could spoil long-term understanding and compatibility. You are strong willed and self-sufficient, not depending on others for encouragement. As your independence and freedom are very important, you will seldom tolerate limitations. Although you are congenial in the early stages of friendships, it is not easy for you to maintain relaxed, harmonious relationships because, through increasing familiarity, you are inclined to lack patience, to be intolerant, and to speak your mind in a frank, argumentative, and occasionally hurtful manner. At times when your expressive urges seem to be bottled up, you experience stress and react to others critically instead of handling situations in a relaxed, cheerful manner. New ideas and new projects motivate, but you have difficulty in following through if the novelty wears off. Because you like to get your own way, and have difficulty in seeing alternative points of view, others accuse you of obstinacy or self-centredness. Although you are naturally happy and generous, you fail to hold friendships because you are inclined to be too dogmatic, argumentative, or sarcastic. In an argument, you usually emerge the victor, but at a cost.
