Your first name of Apinder gives you a responsible, systematic, and practical nature, able to excel in technical fields or as a teacher and you would also enjoy the practical arts. You rebel at being rushed or put under pressure. This is not the best name for you to use as it lacks vision and you could become too involved in technical details, system, and routine. That is when you can become somewhat inflexible. Home and children are important to you, and you desire a settled environment. In the home, you would seek to maintain order and system through using proper disciplinary measures. Being methodical, you work best where you have the time to do a good job, although you can be too fussy at times finding it difficult to react spontaneously to new ideas from others. You could excel in accomplishments of a technical nature where concentration and attention to detail are important. This name restricts the innate expression of an artistic, musical nature. There is a tendency to assume more than your share of duties, and others could impose on your good nature, thus over-burdening you with responsibilities that could cause you to worry.
