Your first name of Ponder has given you a friendly, likeable nature, and you could excel in artistic, dramatic, and musical expression. You want very much for everyone to be happy and friendly. You could tend to make impractical promises, but which could satisfy the situation for the moment. Because you are amiable and diplomatic, generous and sympathetic, you make friends easily. You enjoy spending money and are generous, but must be wary of those who would appeal to your feelings and encourage you to spend beyond your means. Under stressful and intense situations, it is a challenge to you to maintain an even temperament as you are extreme in your feelings, optimistic and happy one moment, despondent and self-pitying the next. Because you are intuitive and impressionable, you are influenced by your surroundings and the thoughts and feelings of others. As a result, some of your efforts are scattered and unsuccessful. You could experience physical problems in the fluid functions and the glands. After each experience, you have to guard against feelings of despondency and self-pity.