Names Create Inequality

Excerpt from What's In Your Name, Alfred J. Parker

If we agree with Abraham Lincoln's statement that "all men are created equal," what then happens in the lives of people that results in wealth for a few, sickness and poverty for many? What is the cause of the thousands of experiences and stimuli that shape our lives? Is their occurrence haphazard, or is there a reason for the pattern of our lives?

At birth we are as animals, and therefore equal for a brief period of our lives; we remain as such until we begin to respond to our given names. From this milestone onward our minds begin to develop, and therein lies the inequality of humanity.

Different names give us physical and mental characteristics. For how else can we differ from each other? As infants our bodies are the same, we have the same fears, loves, desires, and hates; but with the establishment of our names, personality and strong desires of likes and dislikes begin to manifest. All our happiness and sorrows, hopes and despairs, health and sicknesses, successes and failures are instilled in us by our individual names and nicknames. All that we are, and ever will be, is contained in the letters of our name.

It is the manifesting power of the name that had created the vast inequality. If our names are balanced and we follow the laws of nature, we are better able to reach our potentialities.

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Thought for the Day
  • Make life a constructive effort. –Alfred J. Parker

  • The universe cannot be read until we have learnt the language and become familiar with the characters in which it is written.It is written in mathematical language, and the letters are triangles, circles, and other geometrical figures, without which means it is humanly impossible to comprehend a single word. –Galileo Galilei

  • The firmest friendships have been formed in mutual adversity, as iron is most strongly united by the fiercest flame. –Charles C. Colton

  • I cannot stress too deeply the importance of one's constructive mental attitude toward life. One gets out of life only what one puts into it; everything must be seeded in different degrees. Always express happy thoughts and keep an uncomplaining mind. A complaining mind is a destructive one-destructive to health and happiness. How easily we may be made unhappy depends upon the weakness and ignorance of our own minds. Happy thoughts expressed are like the sunbeams that create warmth-that stimulate one's sense of well being and make us feel happy. Give happiness and you will receive it in return: it is a natural phenomenon of a balanced and well-ordered mind. Do not complain; instead seek the solution to the problem, and then you can do something constructive about it. This can best be accomplished by forgetting self; too much false value is placed upon self and personality, thus developing an overrated and inflated ego that sees all things in proportion to its own ignorance. –Alfred J. Parker

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