Your first name of Zhonita has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. If you are not careful, people take advantage of your generous nature. You tend to scatter your efforts, often not finishing what you start, particularly when the task becomes mundane. However, self-consciousness, at times, prevents you from feeling at ease in positions of impromptu self-expression. You seldom like your time to be organized rigidly by others, but like to do things in your own way, at your own time. These contrasting natures make it difficult for people to understand you and can lead to friction in your personal life. People tend to be guarded in handling your over-sensitive qualities. You enjoy reading and can become so absorbed that you are unaware of what is happening around you. You find the beauties of nature, fine music, art, and literature--all the deeper things of life--inspiring. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding.