Your first name of Xtiana gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. Diplomacy is one of your strong points. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. You make friends easily. You do not like very active or strenuous activities, preferring socializing and relaxing. You love children and would not hesitate to care for any children who might need you. While your sensitive, idealistic nature has a positive side, you need to guard against becoming too much of a dreamer. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways.