Your first name of Jharra makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. You desire all the finer things in life--lovely clothes, home, furniture, and environment. You try to avoid stressful experiences, as you have great difficulty in handling tension. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. You know what to say to bring the best response. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.