Your first name of Poling has created a practical, responsible, stable nature, and you desire to direct the efforts of others rather than to take order or ask permission. As a result, rather than trying to explain exactly what you mean, you choose often not to say anything at all. You have a determined, self-reliant, capable nature and resent any interference, although in your desire to help you are inclined to become involved in the lives and decisions of other people. You feel a limitation in your own expression when it is necessary to reach another through tact and understanding. You feel a limitation in your own expression when it is necessary to reach another through tact and understanding. You like to make your own decisions and to be the master of your domain. You have a determined, self-reliant, capable nature and resent any interference, although in your desire to help you are inclined to become involved in the lives and decisions of other people. You also have a tendency to worry. It causes you to be too serious, and interferes with happiness and relaxation that comes with naturalness of expression. It causes you to be too serious, and interferes with happiness and relaxation that comes with naturalness of expression.