Your first name of Pumpkie gives you the desire for success and financial accumulation and the confidence and drive to go after your ambitions, regardless of obstacles. You learn through facts and tangible proof, not through theory and imagination. Being extremely independent and capable, you learn through your own experiences and you like to work on your own or in a position where you are responsible for making decisions and directing the efforts of others. The deeper you feel, the greater the challenge to be natural and expressive. You do not depend upon others for encouragement to carry out your undertakings. You tend to judge others by the degree of financial success they have attained. Many friendships are lost because of your directness. If you work under the authority of someone else, you can become quite frustrated because of your strong-willed and self-reliant nature. Those in close association complain that you are not inclined to observe and return acts of kindness, compassion, or affection. You would be a firm parent and your children would be well-disciplined, but you would find it difficult to get close to them and to show compassion and affection.