Your first name of Apheida gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. You enjoy music, particularly of those instruments that remind you of the sounds of nature. Harmony and relaxation for you could be a quiet walk along the seashore, or in the woods or anywhere that you can observe the beauties of the outdoors. You seem calm and placid, even when you feel turbulent and unhappy. Rather than arguing, you use silence as your way of handling difficult situations. Your reticence has caused you to suffer aloneness and misunderstandings. Once you settle in to accomplish a task, you like to carry it through to completion, quietly and efficiently. If you sense that someone is being inquisitive about you and your life, you are adept at steering the conversation to other topics, or not answering questions directly. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life. Impromptu expression does not come easily unless you know your subject very well.