Your name of Coletje has given you depth of mind and a studious, philosophical nature. You seldom allow others to get too close until you are sure you will receive understanding. It is far easier for you to express your deeper thoughts and feelings through writing than verbally. Others find it a challenge to get to know you and although you want affection, friendship, and understanding, your aloof, shy qualities rebuff the attention of others. You could be very creative in composition or poetry. In matters of the heart, you must guard against jealousy and suspicion. Your reactions to people vary according to how you feel. Because of the sensitivity of your nature, you are easily hurt and offended. A quiet walk in the outdoors, where you can listen to the sounds of nature, the wind in the trees, the lapping of water against a shoreline, the chirping of the birds, which become your companions, allow you to experience peace and freedom. You are inspired by encouragement from others, yet suspicious of their intent.