Your first name of Vidah-May makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. You dislike sordid conditions and harsh circumstances. You know what to say to bring the best response. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. However, procrastination is your worst enemy, and you find yourself lacking the ambition to make your dreams a reality. You enjoy the comforts and amenities of life and refined surroundings that create a sense of peace and harmony. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.