The name of Xue-Er indicates you are a diligent and persevering worker who enjoys a routine occupation where you can do a job well and finish what you start. Many times, because of this lack of expression, when you do say exactly what you think, others are offended and hurt. Not easily changing your opinions, you can be quite stubborn and resist forced changes. You could be inventive along practical lines as you will always try to make things work. In fact, once you start something you do not like to be interrupted or told what to do. Being exacting and somewhat of a perfectionist, you would usually prefer to do a job yourself rather than delegate it to others. Not finding the right words to handle awkward situations leaves you unhappy and frustrated. You could enjoy working with your hands in practical ways as in cooking, baking, or such crafts as sewing or knitting. It is difficult for you to be spontaneous and affectionate with those close to you, as suitable words and actions do not come to mind quickly. In association your tendency to state your mind simply and clearly, without diplomacy or finesse, can lead to awkwardness or embarrassment.
