Your first name of Aefeng makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. People are inclined to take advantage of your sympathetic, tractable nature. You are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration like housework or budget planning. You dislike issues and will do whatever it takes to avoid direct confrontations. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. You enjoy the comforts and amenities of life and refined surroundings that create a sense of peace and harmony. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association.
