Your first name of Opheli makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You desire all the finer things in life--lovely clothes, home, furniture, and environment. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. You know what to say to bring the best response. This name makes it difficult for you to face issues. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. You dislike sordid conditions and harsh circumstances. You naturally attract people with problems who seek your understanding and advice. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.