Your first name of Tahila gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You desire a home and family of your own and have the ability to create understanding and harmony in family association as you are pliable, forgiving, and tactful. Because your mind is quick and intelligent and because you are very considerate, you are able to put others at ease by turning aside contentious issues. People like you at first meeting. You appreciate the pleasures of life. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.