Your first name of Adande has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. Sometimes because it is difficult for you to cope with the reality of life, especially when you are unhappy, you will often read to avoid issues rather than facing objectionable situations. You always wonder if you are doing the right thing, desiring to express yourself but afraid to. If someone misrepresents you or makes a joke out of something important to you, you withdraw and use silence as a method of making the person aware of the inappropriate comments. People may consider you haughty and aloof because of your sensitivity and reserved ways. Many times, you feel misunderstood because not even your closest friends really know you. You are very idealistic and romantic within yourself and may have tried to express your beautiful thoughts through poetry or writing. You may appear reserved and aloof, but you seek love and tenderness. You have a very kind and gentle nature, and although you may be in a position in contact with the public, you will still be a lonely and reserved person. Under stressful conditions, you may experience tension in the solar plexus area.