Your first name of Aedilhum has given you an idealistic nature with a desire to help others. Although you are not comfortable being the centre of attention, your dry sense of humour often deflects attention from your self-consciousness. You are imaginative and visionary, somewhat of a perfectionist, yet the results of your efforts often fall short of your high expectations. However, this name makes it awkward for you to express your deeper thoughts and feelings with finesse and diplomacy to the extent that your candid, sometimes blunt, manner of speaking creates misunderstandings with others. Your tendency to be blunt and to-the-point makes you appear self-centred and unappreciative, and can lead to misunderstandings that alienate those closest to you. Being somewhat self-centred, you learn through your own experiences, as you rarely take advice from others. You long for praise and appreciation for your efforts, but others find it difficult to understand you. Your friends find you loyal, trustworthy, and dependable, but few people realize what noble intentions you have or how much you care. A leadership position appeals to you because you would enjoy directing others rather than being directed. Your feelings are strong and you tend to react intensely to situations.