Your first name of Aender gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. If a project requires too much hard work and effort, you seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences and to talk indiscriminately about others. In your work, you would gravitate to positions in sales, teaching, or some field where you deal with people but are not required to initiate action. You dislike facing issues or witnessing hurt feelings. Intuitive and impressionable, you are sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and responsive to affection and attention. You invariably seek partnerships, for this name causes you to lack confidence in your abilities to be shrewd and to make quick judgments. This name makes it difficult for you to face issues. Also, you prefer to avoid strenuous physical activities, especially when there is the possibility of physical discomfort or distress. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition.