Your first name of Violet gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. You have little resilience for handling tension or persevering in adverse circumstances. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, merging rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. You dislike heavy manual work; as well, you are inclined to put plans off until forced to take action. This name makes it difficult for you to face issues. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences and to talk indiscriminately about others. You could do well working with the public giving advice, where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. Also, you prefer to avoid strenuous physical activities, especially when there is the possibility of physical discomfort or distress. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition.