Your first name of Abebja has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. A very individual, independent person, you live within your own thoughts. You seldom like your time to be organized rigidly by others, but like to do things in your own way, at your own time. Your close friends are few. You find it difficult to say “no” and mean it. When you are with acquaintances and strangers, you tend to be reserved and reticent, shy and secretive but, on the other hand, with close friends you can sometimes be the life of the party, expressive, humorous, dramatic, and fun-loving. When you feel you are understood, you then must guard against jealousy and possessiveness. When you feel misunderstood, you become very reserved and quiet, and do not want to be with people. Over-indulgence could cause a weak back, skin conditions or arthritis later in life. You find the beauties of nature, fine music, art, and literature--all the deeper things of life--inspiring.