Your first name of Aberah gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. As you live much of the time within your own thoughts, someone can be speaking to you face to face, but you will be thinking about something entirely different and have closed out the conversation. You are not spontaneous nor adaptable to situations where there are constant interruptions. When called upon to extemporize, you could be self-conscious and nervous as you prefer to be fully prepared ahead of time to handle situations and experiences. As you do not like to be taken for granted, you can be somewhat stubborn and unbending when you feel misunderstood. As you are a private person, it is a challenge for others to get to know and understand you. You would like to be easy-going and spontaneous but it does not come easily. Harmony and relaxation for you could be a quiet walk along the seashore, or in the woods or anywhere that you can observe the beauties of the outdoors. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life. Impromptu expression does not come easily unless you know your subject very well.