Your first name of Abja creates an intense desire for association with people and new experiences, many of which have been rather bitter. You make the effort to communicate with others because you place importance on having people like you. Although you may appear confident and positive, you actually lack confidence and feel self-conscious at times. Farther fields look greener to you and you find it hard to finish what you have started. When you are feeling relaxed and cheerful, you can be very charming and able to say just the right thing to compliment or inspire someone. Your name creates two conflicting natures. It could also cause upsets in the fluid functions: in the kidneys, bladder, or circulatory system of your body. When you are annoyed or under excessive pressure, you must be careful not to be biting in your speech, fault-finding, and hard to please. This name spoils patience and depth of thought, and weakens your stand in matters of principle. While you do have a quick, clever mind, the tensions and limitations this name places upon your happiness and success in life far outweigh the benefits.