Your first name of Abya makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. You are intuitive and impressionable, sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and very responsive to affection and attention. You enjoy the comforts and amenities of life and refined surroundings that create a sense of peace and harmony. You invariably seek partnerships, for this name causes you to lack confidence in your abilities to be shrewd and to make quick judgments. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. You try to avoid stressful experiences, as you have great difficulty in handling tension. If a project requires too much hard work, effort, or discomfort, you will seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.