Your first name of Aespen gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You shrink from sordidness and poverty because you feel very deeply for anyone in unfortunate circumstances. People like you at first meeting. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. There is a serious side to your nature in that you care about people and have a sense of responsibility to help them. When you are needed and appreciated by others, you sense a security which builds your confidence. You do not like very active or strenuous activities, preferring socializing and relaxing. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways.
