Your first name of Affery gives you an independent, serious, reticent, and studious nature. You can express your thoughts best in writing, and you express your appreciation of others through little acts of service rather than verbally. The people who mean the most to you are those who can offer you intellectual companionship. You are a thoughtful, analytical person, and you know your own mind, even though you may not speak it. You do not express yourself spontaneously when conversing with others; hence other people may often regard you as being aloof, and even unfriendly. The experience of having your remarks taken lightly or belittled, particularly during the early years of your life, has caused you to keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself. You express your thoughts and feelings best through writing rather than verbally. Your difficulty in putting your deeper thoughts and feelings into words can lead to problems in more intimate associations. For that reason, despite having good business abilities, you like to work alone or where you are making your own decisions. It has created separateness from others and loneliness in your life.