Your first name of Ah-Lai gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. Sometimes friction in association results because your penchant for exactness and detail can cause you to be too fussy over inconsequential matters in the home or at work. Procrastination is a weakness of your nature, causing an inability always to complete your plans or to concentrate for long. This uncertainty and indecision undermines your initiative, positivity, and vitality. You are not comfortable having to make major decisions. It is not easy for you to face issues and take a stand on them, for not only are you somewhat lacking in self-confidence, but also you prefer to avoid situations in which there could be dissension. Others do not always realize how sensitive and aware you are of their thoughts and feelings toward you. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. You resist being forced into change and could become almost impervious to new ideas.
