Your first name of Ajila gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. Because others often come to you for assistance with their problems, you must guard against being drawn out to divulge confidences. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. While your sensitive, idealistic nature has a positive side, you need to guard against becoming too much of a dreamer. Diplomacy is one of your strong points. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. You will sacrifice your own opportunities to help others. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways.