Your first name of Alandis gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. When you are needed and appreciated by others, you sense a security which builds your confidence. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. You make friends easily. There is a serious side to your nature in that you care about people and have a sense of responsibility to help them. Because others often come to you for assistance with their problems, you must guard against being drawn out to divulge confidences. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. You appreciate the pleasures of life. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action.
