Your first name of Arbra gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. At times you exhibit an uncompromising attitude and indifference toward others through failing to listen to and reason out another person’s point of view. This uncertainty and indecision undermines your initiative, positivity, and vitality. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. It is very important to you to have peaceful, settled conditions in your life. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say “yes” or “no” and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. Peaceful and settled conditions appeal to you and you are naturally desirous of having the security of a home, where your life could follow a definite pattern, and where you would not have to make major decisions. Although you may dream of better things, you find it hard to maintain the drive to go after them. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. While you do have many fine qualities, the tensions created by this name do not allow you to enjoy a full and complete life.
