Your first name of Arlitha gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. You make friends easily. You have a love of home and family and could be a good mother because of your gentle, loving ways. When you are needed and appreciated by others, you sense a security which builds your confidence. You desire a home and family of your own and have the ability to create understanding and harmony in family association as you are pliable, forgiving, and tactful. Once settled in a responsible position whether it be in the home or the business world, you are content to remain there giving to others the benefit of your talents. You could be successful in public office where you are diligently looking after the rights of others. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.