Your first name of Arrena has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. In a large group of comparative strangers, you are quiet and rather shy, unable to express yourself, not really wanting to become involved in conversation. You appreciate music, art, and drama and if given training, could excel in those fields. When you feel misunderstood, you become very reserved and quiet, and do not want to be with people. You are loyal to your friends and go out of your way to help others. These contrasting natures make it difficult for people to understand you and can lead to friction in your personal life. You find it difficult to say “no” and mean it. You are deep, philosophical, and refined, but your extremely sensitive nature causes you to become depressed and self-pitying over any real or imagined slight. You find the beauties of nature, fine music, art, and literature--all the deeper things of life--inspiring. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding.