Your first name of Aubelia has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. This name does make you quite direct and straight-to-the-point. You candidly say what you think and this quality, combined with your diligence to look after the rights of people, can cause others to think of you as being interfering and bossy, or lacking in tact and understanding. You have a forthright, matter-of-fact manner that others turn to in times of need. You are practical and steadfast but at times too limited in your personal opinions and ideas. You take your responsibilities seriously and have a deep appreciation for family and the home environment. Although you are extremely devoted to your family and friends, it is not in your nature to express emotional sentiments. Having everything under control is important to you as it reflects your capable, serious nature. You have a tendency to worry far too much over obligations and responsibilities. The influence of this name does not promote the friendship that you desire or the relaxation and naturalness you should enjoy with people.