Your first name of Berendia gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. It is very important to you to have peaceful, settled conditions in your life. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. Weaknesses in your physical body show in either the fluid functions or the digestive and eliminative tract. This name brings the tendency to magnify small issues out of proportion or to become too involved in personality conflicts. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. It is not easy for you to face issues and take a stand on them, for not only are you somewhat lacking in self-confidence, but also you prefer to avoid situations in which there could be dissension. You are not comfortable having to make major decisions. While you do have many fine qualities, the tensions created by this name do not allow you to enjoy a full and complete life. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood.