Your first name of Bo-Men gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. Peaceful and settled conditions appeal to you and you are naturally desirous of having the security of a home, where your life could follow a definite pattern, and where you would not have to make major decisions. Procrastination is a weakness of your nature, causing an inability always to complete your plans or to concentrate for long. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. It is not easy for you to face issues and take a stand on them, for not only are you somewhat lacking in self-confidence, but also you prefer to avoid situations in which there could be dissension. Your name incorporates a potential aptitude for concentration and patient, logical thought along detailed, practical lines but it restricts inspirational qualities and the ability to visualize new ideas and theories. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. You have a strong emotional nature that, if not kept under control, could be detrimental to your health or result in problems in close personal relationships. You resist being forced into change and could become almost impervious to new ideas. While you do have many fine qualities, the tensions created by this name do not allow you to enjoy a full and complete life.