Your first name of Chahlia gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You do not like very active or strenuous activities, preferring socializing and relaxing. While your sensitive, idealistic nature has a positive side, you need to guard against becoming too much of a dreamer. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. Diplomacy is one of your strong points. People like you at first meeting. You are not an overly aggressive person but you are earnest in carrying out your responsibilities. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action.