Your first name of Dahlya gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. Because your mind is quick and intelligent and because you are very considerate, you are able to put others at ease by turning aside contentious issues. Once settled in a responsible position whether it be in the home or the business world, you are content to remain there giving to others the benefit of your talents. When you are needed and appreciated by others, you sense a security which builds your confidence. You have an appreciation of beauty in many forms, and enjoy musical and artistic expression along with all the refinements of life. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.