Your first name of Dalian creates an intense desire for association with people and new experiences, many of which have been rather bitter. Your name creates two conflicting natures. This name has given you a gregarious personality and a quick-thinking, creative, and versatile nature, but one that is unstable emotionally. Through lack of discretion and being too emotional, you could attract bitter experiences and disappointments in people. The qualities in this name tend to narrow your opportunities by hindering your ability to concentrate. When you are feeling relaxed and cheerful, you can be very charming and able to say just the right thing to compliment or inspire someone. Your difficulty in accumulating wealth or stabilizing your finances often causes your personal affairs to be in a turmoil. When challenged for an explanation on a matter that could cause conflict, you can almost instantly come up with an acceptable answer to deflect the issue, even if you have to stretch the truth a little. This name spoils patience and depth of thought, and weakens your stand in matters of principle. These upsets drain your vitality and make you tire more readily.