Your first name of Dashera has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. Crudeness and vulgarity are very repulsive to you and you are very particular about little things. You may appear reserved and aloof, but you seek love and tenderness. You live much within your own thoughts and find companionship in literature, especially romance or mystery. You crave affection and understanding, yet because you can be so easily and deeply hurt, you have learned to keep your true nature hidden; therefore people do not really know you. If someone misrepresents you or makes a joke out of something important to you, you withdraw and use silence as a method of making the person aware of the inappropriate comments. Being self-conscious you do not like to be the centre of attention, yet you would like to be more expressive, outgoing, and spontaneous. Sometimes because it is difficult for you to cope with the reality of life, especially when you are unhappy, you will often read to avoid issues rather than facing objectionable situations. Thus, you live much within your own thoughts, often finding your escape in reading, which you love to do. Under stressful conditions, you may experience tension in the solar plexus area.