Your first name of Dem has created contrasting qualities in your nature. Although you tend to champion causes and want to help others who are in less-fortunate circumstances, you are not overly sympathetic nor forgiving. You are not overly conversational unless there is something to learn from the conversation. Although you desire to avoid monotony, you seem to be attuned to system, order, and attention to detail. In fact, you feel awkward and self-conscious when put in delicate situations, as you feel your inability to be as diplomatic as you should be. You are independent and positive in opinion, original in your thinking, and a stickler for logic and reason. You cannot be pushed or driven, responding instead with great effort if you are approached with proper consideration. When your interest is exhausted, you switch to something else even though it means leaving your undertakings unfinished. This skepticism has not protected you from many disappointments when people you have trusted have let you down. This name makes you inquisitive and scientific in your approach to life, requiring everything to be proved to satisfy your skepticism.