Your first name of Erdaine makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. You are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration like housework or budget planning. You dislike issues and will do whatever it takes to avoid direct confrontations. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.
