Your first name of Gaartje gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. These aspects are dear to you and touch you deeply. As you live much of the time within your own thoughts, someone can be speaking to you face to face, but you will be thinking about something entirely different and have closed out the conversation. As you are a private person, it is a challenge for others to get to know and understand you. It is by actions rather than words that you show your regard for others. You prefer positions where your independence and love of freedom are not curtailed, where there is not the constant demands of people. As you do not like to be taken for granted, you can be somewhat stubborn and unbending when you feel misunderstood. You are not spontaneous nor adaptable to situations where there are constant interruptions. Any weaknesses in health tends to affect the heart and respiratory organs or the female organs. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life.