The name of Gillam creates a dual nature in that you can be very generous and understanding, but you can also be so candid in your expression that you create misunderstanding. You have your own strong opinions and it is not easy for you to be influenced by others to change your mind once you have reached a decision. You struggle with the requirement to soften your expression with tact and diplomacy and to consider the feelings of others. You could develop a dependence on medication, for example, to relieve the tension. You desire to be recognized for your efforts, and, if you feel you are being taken for granted, you are apt to become intolerant, critical, and complaining. You dislike monotony. Thus, you have too often created the wrong impression, and friendships have suffered. You can be too possessive of those who mean the most to you and must guard against jealousy. You have very intense feelings and find it difficult to maintain stability and happiness. This quality can spoil friendships and create losses in the affections.
