Your first name of Harlyn has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. Having everything under control is important to you as it reflects your capable, serious nature. Being relaxed and spontaneous in social or formal situations is sometimes challenging. It makes you feel awkward and embarrassed when you are drawn into situations requiring sympathy and understanding, or where lavish affection and compliments are expected. If given the training, you could develop music and art. Because you tend to be somewhat of a perfectionist, you might insist on doing too many things yourself instead of delegating jobs to others who might do less satisfactory work. Your love is shown in what you do for others, in your sense of responsibility and dependability, in the sacrificing of your time to be of assistance. You can be depended upon to do any job well and you will often carry out an undertaking yourself instead of accepting a second-rate job accomplished by another. The influence of this name does not promote the friendship that you desire or the relaxation and naturalness you should enjoy with people. You have a tendency to worry far too much over obligations and responsibilities.