Your name of Helmer gives you independence and determination. Under circumstances when others are expressive, you feel inferior because you recognize your inability to communicate your deeper thoughts and feelings. Unfortunately, it is a challenge for you to express tenderness to others. Your name often makes you feel separate and alone. Usually, you would prefer to develop your own business or work for someone who realizes your strengths. Yet, when others get to know you, they realize you are loyal in your friendships and would go to any length to help someone in need. You have known misunderstandings and a tendency to jealousy and moods of depression. You are not sentimental nor idealistic. You feel this separation from others and would give anything to be always lighthearted and friendly instead of serious and shy. The restrictions of this name cause you to suffer with either headaches, weak eyes, sinus problems, asthma, or heart conditions.